{"id":5075,"date":"2018-09-11T11:34:52","date_gmt":"2018-09-11T18:34:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bloodinyoursaltwater.com\/?p=5075"},"modified":"2018-09-11T11:37:39","modified_gmt":"2018-09-11T18:37:39","slug":"09-11-2018-lost-lessons-victoria-bc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bloodinyoursaltwater.com\/?p=5075","title":{"rendered":"[09-11-2018] &#8220;We All Know&#8221;: Lost Lessons \u2013 Victoria, BC"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-5076\" src=\"https:\/\/bloodinyoursaltwater.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/43d0de23657822829d39a8ae268bb833.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"390\" height=\"390\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bloodinyoursaltwater.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/43d0de23657822829d39a8ae268bb833.jpg 736w, https:\/\/bloodinyoursaltwater.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/43d0de23657822829d39a8ae268bb833-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/bloodinyoursaltwater.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/43d0de23657822829d39a8ae268bb833-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 390px) 100vw, 390px\" \/>17 years ago today, people got on planes, people went to work. They were businessmen, business women, pilots, firefighters, paramedics. It was just another morning. A random Tuesday in the middle of a year that had not been all that much different than any other.<\/p>\n<p>And then, in the space of a breath, in the space in between one heartbeat and the next\u2026everything changed.<\/p>\n<p>We all know what happened in New York. We all know where we were that split second when the world changed.<\/p>\n<p>But do we really\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Those images are emblazoned on the backs of our eyelids, in the shadows of our hearts. We have used those images over the years to fuel so many things, but mostly it seems that we have used them to fuel anger. And fear. I have said before that there need be no more attacks on our world, because those who launched that attack have accomplished what they set out for \u2013 they have filled us with fear, and from fear was born anger, and from there was born the course to tear us apart.<\/p>\n<p>It could have brought us together. But we somehow seem to have missed that.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe we didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe not all of us did.<\/p>\n<p>We all know what happened in New York, in the space of that heartbeat.<\/p>\n<p>But how many of us know the other stories, how many of us truly <em>remember<\/em> the feeling of outpouring support, of positivity, of universal love even when we so seldom all get along. How many of us have chosen to focus on the kindness we saw in those early days, when the world was grieving, when we were all standing as Americans \u2013 even those of us who held totally different passports. Focus on that, focus on the donations people made, the love the world expressed for the people who were lost and the families that remained, the firefighters who braved the smoke and the charcoal and the flames to make sure that even though many were lost <em>some<\/em> were saved.<\/p>\n<p>And remember the people like those in Gander, Newfoundland. A tiny Canadian town, now brought to the world stage, because they were <em>kind<\/em>. As the musical based on the story now says \u201c5 days, 19 animals and 7,000 strays!\u201d. \u00a0But they weren\u2019t the only ones. All over the western world, thousands of people were grounded when the airspace closed, and there were thousands of people who <em>took them in<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>We all know what happened in New York, what happened in the space of that breath.<\/p>\n<p>We know that we saw humanity at it\u2019s worst that day, we saw tragedy and horror, and we lost so much of our innocence.<\/p>\n<p>But we are all so quick to forget that we also saw humanity at it\u2019s best.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to take a tragedy to bring out the best in us. It <em>shouldn\u2019t<\/em> take a tragedy. It too often does, but it shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>17 years later\u2026I think the musical does put best:<\/p>\n<p><em>We honour what was lost. But we also commemorate <u>what we found<\/u>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself, whenever you have the chance, the people that were lost, the people that continue to <em>be<\/em> lost because of this overwhelming anger that is sweeping over the world \u2013 what would <em>they<\/em> want. Yes, I\u2019m sure there are a few who would perhaps clamour for vengeance, but I think for the most part, those people \u2013 our loved ones, our lost, our mourned \u2013 they would not want more blood. Vengence serves nothing but to feed on itself. Live your lives in the way that honours those who have left, live your life in a way that would make them smile, would make them proud, would make them feel that what they gave up \u2013 or what was taken from them \u2013 actually made a difference.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s for those lost on planes, those lost in gun violence, for the Florida 49, or just for the sake of wanting the world to be that little bit better\u2026<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to take another tragedy to bring humanity to its best.<\/p>\n<p>17 years later\u2026we all know what happened in New York\u2026but it\u2019s beyond time that we started to learn the right lessons from it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>17 years ago today, people got on planes, people went to work. They were businessmen, business women, pilots, firefighters, paramedics. It was just another morning. 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